Here is the truth: lolitas are strong. Lolitas are brave. Every day, they decide to wear things that are not popular or accepted. They have been mocked, alienated and harassed for their choices, in every location from big cities to rural towns. Why? Because as a lolita, the fundamental belief is that making yourself happy is the most important thing. Even if you feel awkward, standing alone in a pink-and-blue ruffled dress, knowing that the rest of the world is staring… you are standing up for your right to make choices about your happiness, not others’. If this dress makes you feel happy when you look at it and put it on, then it should be your choice to embrace that.
Victoria Suzanne (Lolita Charm)
thank you <3
Today I met this pretty brolita at Japan Expo Belgium. Darling, if you ever see this picture let me know so I can follow you cause you’re so kawaii -^-^-
My outfit I wore at JE Belgium. I never been this pink before, hihi.
Beautiful and pink! Love all the decorations in your hair! Tell me about those tights - where did you get them from?
Lovely Cris <3
Such a pretty dress!
Love your hair and nails!
What are the usual reactions you get when wearing Lolita? And do you have any advice for being brave enough to wear it out of the house? :3
Okaay Im just going to be plain and flat with you. Alot of people like it, like little kids who point and stare and say things like ‘princess’ , alot of grandparents and older people really like the modesty and some will even say things like ‘its great your in touch with ancestors, if only more kids dressed like this’ , alot of teenagers will stare and make loud comments to friends but there is a great majority as well that like it. So honestly, nobodys going to be too mean if you wear it out. Okay for tips, lets seeeee . Honestly I feel that everybody should do what their hearts are telling them and if thats wear 3 layers of clothing and a wig, go for it. I think the confidence is everything. You just have to tell yourself ‘im awesome and I dont care’ and theres going to be people who say snotty things but theres going to be more that like it! C: I think if you dont have the courage to do like ott or wear a full outfit just wear one or two pieces. See me, when I started I had to wait 3 months to get my dresses, so when I first got them I just paraded them like a model on the runway (badly but thats another story) i honestly didnt care. But there was one time that I went to the library with a big bow on my head and one of my most frilliest dresses, alot of people looked up and kinda snickered and i felt really really awkward. Because before that everyone at the library knew me as the goth punk girl. But , back to the story I just lifted my head up and knew that this dress was something I really wanted and they didnt matter. Gosh, this is so long Im sorry for dragging this out, please have confidence in yourself and wear it out! I bet you will do great!! ^_^ please have a nice day.
amazing advice! Thank you!
pink picnic with miss Lucy Doll and miss K, <3